Chemical Instincts we don't even know are happening #shorts #health #family #new #podcast #show transcript

Every mother out there that has a male child >> at year 10, 11, or 12, that's when you go from the little boy wants to hug his mom all the time, be up on his mom. Right when that young man starts to get into puberty and his testicle walls start to ferment more >> and get stronger, there's this thing that kicks on his brain. I'm not going to give you the name cuz it's a super long name you got to put on the screen, but let's just say this.

[laughter] It's a chemical that kicks in at the beginning of puberty to make his mother smell repulsive. >> Interesting. >> Just to protect against incest. So what people don't understand is when you seen the commercials where the woman's like, "Oh, he doesn't want to hug me anymore." Or so many people say when their son gets 10 or 11, don't be kissing me. Get off me. >> Oh my god. >> And you can't explain it. And some women dealing with postpartum, they take that personal. >> It's not personal.

It's neurological. It's a word >> for this chemical that kicks in at the beginning of puberty that makes the mother smell repulsive >> to the child. >> To the child. So it will not be incest. That's for the male child though. For the male child. >> Got it. women, female childs, their their their mistrations sink and that changes from the mother dynamic cuz I don't like it competitive. >> But >> the mother is like now you actually can go after be having that because even though she may be married to that man, he ain't going nowhere.

The mother's ministration and the daughter's ministration matching up in the same household. Now they're competing for what? Procreation. >> Okay, but what about when you and your home girl sync up? I'll be like, "Bitch, don't be coming over here with if you got something going on and likely. And this is this is just my opinion. More than likely, y'all shared uh um y'all shared bodily fluids. >> Oh, >> now watch this.

How many times you been with your girl >> and you take a sip of your drink >> and you like, "Girl, taste this." >> Yes. Okay. Cuz I thought you was talking about something freaky, but then I was not at all. [laughter] >> Oh, man. Hey, hey, hey, hand me my Bible. >> Hey, grab my Bible. >> Grab the Bible. Put my Bible right here. right here. [clears throat] >> No, but but I what I will say is back to our original conversation is that you got to understand something.

The power of the brain is so key if you don't know what you're dealing with, right? >> So when you smell somebody's pherommones and like this is so key because there's so many people that get together and have a child and by the time the child is two, they hate each other. >> That's connected to primal instinct, right? Because back in hunter gatherer days, >> uh the man would not leave the wife until the child could walk on its own. >> That's normally 2 years of age. >> That's why traditionally if you have a child at the beginning of the marriage or you have a child when you first get together, more than likely you're not going to last two years cuz once that child can walk and feel for itself, the male brain totally turns off its protective nature and can leave.

That's just how the brain works, right? So that's why I say if we have for a reason, LADIES, >> I KNEW YOU WOULD do that. [laughter] No, that's >> I'm leaving cuz that little infus >> [music]