Why Women Respect Men Who Walk Away transcript

Why women respect men who walk away. So let's first talk about the opposite of walking away. Okay. And why women don't respect men who don't walk away. So if a woman doesn't really want you in her life, um perhaps she's unattracted to you or perhaps she's dumped you or perhaps she's just slowly lost interest. If a guy is um still hanging around, you know, kind of still talking to her, still hope kind of waiting in the wings basically to swoop in at the right time to try and to try and get her again cuz maybe she starts dating some other guy instead.

And he's basically just waiting around. He's just he's put his life on hold. He's put his romantic life on hold in hopes that one day she might change her mind. That's the opposite of walking away from a woman. And as you can see, it's not very a very self-respecting thing to do. So if you don't respect yourself and you just sort of wait around hoping that she will grace you with her presence, hoping that one day she'll look at you in the same way that she did a few months ago or maybe she'll change your mind about putting you in the friend zone or she'll just magically fall in love with you again.

If you're just waiting around for that to happen, then what you're showing is is that you have no respect for yourself at all. And you have and you you have such low selfrespect that you are willing to just put your romantic life on hold for one woman. Okay? So, of course, if you don't respect yourself enough to walk away and to move on with your life, then that woman is not going to respect you either. Okay? But she will at least respect a man who does walk away, who says, "Okay, she's not interested or she dumped me, so she's clearly not interested or she's put me in friend zone.

You know, I'm just going to move on with my life." A woman respects that. Okay? And in some cases that may even reattract her because she then senses that you've got a backbone that you're not willing to wait around for her even though you know perhaps she's really really beautiful and that's probably one of the reasons why you may be sticking around because she she turns you on basically. So when you show that you can walk away from a woman, they start to respect you more.

She will start to respect you more. because you're showing that you've got that selfrespect. And if you think about it, then this is the better way to live anyway because even though it may be difficult to begin with because you really like her and you think, "Oh, you know what? If I just hang around, if I just talk to her or maybe she'll start to feel something for me. Maybe it it maybe if I just be her friend for a while, she'll just see that I'm I'm the one that's been there all along and I've been there for her." And you know, you think about this, you rationalize it in your head, thinking that, oh, maybe she just needs a bit more time.

Yeah, you do that and you think that, but what's happening is you're falling in love with her more. You're not getting over your emotions. You're not getting over how you feel about her. And what you'll do is you're just dragging out the process way more. So when something happens where it finally definitely ends like let's say she gets engaged or married she has a kid with some other guy you know when it's finally look you know when it's finally over and is clear to you it's going to hurt even more.

So the best thing for you to do a because um it's going to help you move on faster is to walk away and two you may actually retra attract her back. It's the only way that you could attract her back. Okay? If you give her distance and space, cuz if you want a woman to miss you, then you have to leave, you have to be absent from her life, you have to give her complete silence because if she does like you deep down, if she does have feelings for you, when you're gone, she will miss you.

So literally the best option for you mentally and the and and for your heart and also the best option for you um with her is to walk away because those are the only things that can help you move on with your life and also help attract her back if that's something that's going to happen, right? If she has still has feelings for you. So it's always a win-win and it's always a lose lose, okay? as in like that you get two losses if you don't do that.

If you stick around, if you be her friend, if you're, you know, allowing yourself to be in the friend zone. Um, if you're trying to win her by just being around, okay, and sticking in her and trying to stay in her life essentially, it's a lose-lose because it drags out the process for you. So when it does finally come to a halt and she's with she's sleeping with some other guy or she's married to some other guy having popping out kids with some other guy, right?

That's a lose then because you've lost her completely then and it's going to hurt so much when that happens because you've dragged it out for so long by being her friend and and staying in her life for such a long period of time hoping that she'll change your mind. And also, you're doing the unattractive thing on in her eyes, too. And it's going to make her, you know, if she does still have some feelings for you, it's going to make her lose all those feelings completely because she will then just see you as a friend or she'll think that you're weak cuz she'll know on some level that you still like her and you're not moving on with your life.

You're still waiting around and that's going to give her the ick. She's going to think it's icky. She It's going to turn her stomach. Women don't like to be chased. Women like to chase. Okay. So, the best way that you can get into that position of making her chase you because if she's chasing you, she's not dumping you um and she's not um finding some other guy. Okay. So, the best way that you can chase her or the best way that you can get her to chase you rather than sorry is if you walk away and you you go into no contact and you don't talk to her anymore and you don't give her any more of your attention because you did that in the past and it did [ __ ] all.

It didn't work, did it? Otherwise, you wouldn't be here watching this video. But what will work or at least put you in the best possible position to make something work is if you [ __ ] off and you don't talk to her anymore. You stop talking to her. Stop putting yourself in her orbit. Let her do that. Let her put herself in your orbit now. You've done enough. You have she and she probably already knows how you feel about her.

She could probably tell by the way that you messaged her. She can tell that the way the way you interact with her, if you still see her physically, like say let's say you go to school together or you um go to work together. She knows. She can tell. She she she she can tell by your body language. She can tell by the way that you look at her. She can tell by the way that you message her. She can tell by when you message her.

Late at night, when you're drunk, possibly. She might not know that, but she might guess that you might be wi these things are not subtle to women. Women know when a guy fancies them. The only time that a woman will not know if a guy fancies her and is sort of left up in the air and it's a bit mysterious is if he doesn't talk to her and if he doesn't place himself in her orbit. If he's always the one to end the conversation.

So let's say, well, I can't walk away from her. I can't do no contact because I know her, Christine. I go to work with her. I go to school with her. Sorry about the voice. Um, so what do I do then? I can't ignore her. I can't go into no contact. I can't walk away. I see her face every day. Well, what I say to people that know a woman like this in a physical environment is this. You think about the most neutral person that you know in that environment.

So, just someone that you say good morning to, you know, who you say hello to, maybe have a quick conversation with, just a casual acquaintance, and then you just, you know, get on with the rest of your day. That's how you need to treat her. And what I would say also is this. Let's say she's you're going, you're walking down a corridor and you bump into each other. Okay? You say you don't, first of all, you don't step towards her.

You just sort of stay where you are. You let her come to you. Okay? First, that's the first thing you do. physically make her come over to you cuz again that's chasing. Okay? So you don't you don't move over to her and say hello, she comes over to you or you just stay in the position where you are so that she has to come to you. Okay? So just stay in the position that you're in. Okay? If she stops to talk to you cuz it might be that she just carries on walking by.

If she carries on walking by and she doesn't acknowledge you, she doesn't look you in the eye, then then that's it, you know? So, let's say you're walking down that corridor and she's walking towards you and you say, "Hey, how's it going?" And she's like, "Yeah, I'm good, thanks." Now, it could be that she just carries on walking. But if she stops to talk to you, again, stay in position. Don't you move towards her. Just stand in stand still from where you are.

Okay? And then you have a little conversation and then you're the first one to end the conversation. Okay? So, so you might say, "Hey, how are you?" "Yeah, I'm good, thanks. What's up to what you been up to?" "Oh, not a lot." "Yeah, what have you been up to?" Yeah, not too much. You're like, "Okay, well, great. See you around then. Have a good day." And then you walk away. You're the first one to end the conversation.

And if she wants to come up and talk to you, she has to physically come to you. Okay? Not you going up to her and be like, "Hey, how are you? What you been up to?" No, you let her come to you. If she wants to have a chat, she has to come to you. Or you just stand in place. Okay? Um, so that's what you do. If you know a woman in a physical environment, like you go to work with her or you go to school with her, that's what you do.

Okay? But you're not prolonging the conversation. You're not trying to make a conversation happen. Okay? And you just treat her like a normal usual acquaintance. So that means as well that you're not whenever she walks into the room or whenever you see her doesn't mean that you're moping in the corner, you know, miserable like you hurt my feelings. You know, you're not doing that. Okay? Because that lets her know that you're still affected by her.

And again, you want to treat her like a neutral person. So that means you still carry on business as usual. You're still your normal self. Now, the opposite of that is that when she walks into the room, you start acting all macho and start being like, "Oh, yeah." You know, start you start um being, this is something that I used to do. I start showing off. That's what I used to do with women that I liked who I knew at school or who I went to work with.

That's what I would do. I would like just start like playing up basically and start acting like a lunatic. Okay, just just an idiot, right? Um because I was showing off, right? So that's another thing you don't want to do either. When she walked into the room, you don't want to change your behavior and start showing off either. You just want to carry on as business as usual. You want to act as if she just didn't enter the room.

Now, of course, if she says something to you, then you want to acknowledge her and say hi, you know, and stuff like that. But again, you end the conversation first, right? And if she wants to come and talk to you, then she has to come up to you. You're not stay You're not moving for her. You're not going over to her. You're staying where you are, okay? And that's what you do, okay? Um, and that will earn more respect with her, okay?

Cuz you're no longer chasing her. Okay? So, thank you so much for watching. If you'd like to get in touch with me personally and you would like coaching with me and you feel like I've basically just explained your whole situation to you and you would like some more help with that or perhaps there's something that I didn't mention that you probably would feel like you need help with or you just want to tell me your story of how um of what's going on, see if I can help you salvage it and see if I can help you turn things around.

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