Men are no longer staying when women prove they aren't wifey material transcript

Okay, so this is me. >> I just left my wife of three years. We've been together for 10 years. >> Let this be your warning, ladies, because more and more men are deciding to leave relationships or just never even enter into them in the first place. This man goes on to describe why he left his relationship, and I am going to press play so that you guys can hear it. >> Imagine spending 10 years with someone and then you guys end it because a difference of opinion.

I'll tell you what, it's not just about a difference of opinion. It's about morals and values. >> I have been talking about this for years. That's not the end of this video, guys. He does say more, but what I want to do is cut in. This is a recent video that I posted that you guys may or may not have seen. I can't play the music on this because it's copyrighted, but I said when she says that one small thing that proves she's not wifey material.

I'm going to live go into the comments of this video because it was posted just one day ago and tell you the top liked comments. Okay, number one coming in at you are different than the guys I usually date. He's just a friend. I'm a woman. I can express my emotions when I want to. I don't need no man for nothing. I want to be married. I don't want to work anymore. Okay, so that was a recent video. I also have this one that was posted three I think it was three years ago.

Here it is. The music on this is copyrighted but it says POV. She casually mention something that confirms she is not wifey material. A lot of women do not realize that just like how she has a picture of who her husband will be and how he will treat her, a man also has a picture of who his wife will be. And this includes the values and the belief system she has. So when his girlfriend acts in a way that contradicts this image, he loses the desire to pursue her.

And unfortunately, there's no going back from that. Especially when they're just dating, they're not married. Absolutely. That man is going to head out the door when he sees these red flags because not all red flags are created equal. Okay? There's some small red flags and then there's some big red flags. And this is absolutely seen as a big red flag by a man. A lot of that reason is because men are kind of just putting everything on the table when they're deciding to be with somebody in a long-term relationship, especially marriage.

It is actually very risky for him because he has a lot to lose. Side note, I think that there's a little bit of a hidden double standard here that I want to point out to you guys and I want to know what you guys think. But oftentimes when this dynamic happens where a man is dating somebody long term and then this happens, you know, like there's that red flag and then he kind of sees her differently and everything kind of changes in the relationship.

Oftent times women don't see why it's happening and women will oftentimes end up labeling this type of situation as him being a narcissist. you know, that just decided to lovebomb her and then he ended up, you know, switching it up. But it's not that he had ill intentions from the beginning. It's really just that things changed. He saw her differently after she thought that what she was saying was perfectly fine. But again, it's hard for women to even see themselves as like the problem.

And a lot of the comments are talking about something that is very fresh on social media. A lot of people have been talking about it. Couples have even been breaking up over it. Here's a hint. This is part of the reason why that man ended up divorcing his wife. >> And I'm going to start by saying this. I care about my kids even though they don't even exist right now. Okay? I'm not going to marry a woman, have kids with a woman when her brain doesn't even function nor. >> Imagine spending 10 years with someone and then you guys end it because a difference of opinion.

I'll tell you what, it's not just about a difference of opinion. It's about morals and values. >> What is so wild to watch is that women have been completely surprised by this because women think oftentimes that they can speak their opinion and they're always right. Right. So no backlash is going to occur over them just speaking their opinion. But the truth is is that men absolutely care about a woman's morals and ethics.

And even in the dating stages, like when he is dating you to determine whether or not he wants to marry you, a lot of men will know early on as soon as he meets you that he wants to marry you. But then later on, he hears something from that woman's mouth that can seem totally innocent, but it points to her not being the person that he thought she was when he kind of figured out that he wanted to marry her. And it is so disappointing to him.

We do hear the cases where a man will say, "Oh, I knew that she was going to be my wife." And then she is consistent to that person that he did think that she was like those cases. Absolutely. That's when you hear that man say that, you know, I always knew she was the one. Again, the opposite we don't hear that much of. So, a lot of women think that that just doesn't happen. Like, men do care, ladies. They care about your ethics and morals, especially if they want children because you are going to be the mother of their children, which is sort of what led to this man's decision.

Let me hit play. >> And if you don't have that, then you don't have anything. You don't have a relationship. It's way more deeper than one single disagreement. No, we've had thousands of those. She doesn't give a damn about those kids. She has so much empathy for a grown woman that killed her own kids, that strangled her own kids. I can't be around that. That's demonic. >> That's not the end of this video, guys. He does say more, but what I want to do is cut in and say that he doesn't even mention the name of the case.

I think we all know what he's talking about. And absolutely, even though it seems like this could be a very simple thing, what like why do you let that affect you so personally and like destroy your relationship, especially a marriage? And what I would say is that this probably isn't the only thing. Like I'm sure that there were other things leading up to it that made him question, you know, her ethics and values. And he's looking like he's starting to think about wanting kids.

You know, they've been married for a time. And I think he's being super smart. He is. I think that this generation of men and women I would say are being very careful of the partners that they pick because they have seen the older generation, the millennials really oftentimes get it wrong with their partner and it has led to divorce and terrible outcomes for kids because of that. Because I would stand to argue that it's probably a lot more painful as a man to have a child and be completely cut off from them or like significantly cut off from them because your ex is terrible compared to just like not having kids in the first place.

Not that any children should ever be regretted, but if you have the opportunity early on to kind of get your life on the right path, of course men are going to choose that now cuz they've seen the impact of the opposite. But that's not everything. He also has a little bit more to add. >> My ex-wife came on here and made multiple videos about our situation and our relationship, and that shows that I made the right decision.

Thank God that I seen it. Thank God. >> There you go. She also put it all out there, all of her business out on social media. I mean, at least they don't have kids, so you know, that won't impact the kids later on. That is her choice. But he feels like he made the right decision because of what she has said online. If you guys agree or disagree with his decision, please leave it in the comments. As always guys, I hope you have a great week and I will see you next