How To Get ANY SP To Crave You | Law Of Assumption transcript

If you want your SP to crave you and miss you and constantly think about you and always want to be around you and just naturally move towards you, there is one big thing that you need to understand. The answer to how you make that happen could very well be the opposite to what you've been doing. When most people want their SP to crave them, immediately they get into the state of trying to make it happen. So, they start thinking, "How do I make this happen?

Do I need to text them? Do I let them text me first? Should I pull away? Should I make them feel jealous? How do I make them chase me? Should I post something that they're going to see? How do I make them wonder where I am?" And so, they end up constantly thinking about their SP and about the ways in which they can make this happen and the ways in which they can elicit that particular reaction in their SP. Here's the irony, you guys, with all of this.

The more you want your SP to want you and crave you and miss you and think about you and want to be around you, the less magnetic you actually feel. And I'm not talking about anything like a cosmic punishment where the universe says, "Oh, you're attached to your SP. Now, I'm not going to give you your manifestation." No, it's much simpler than that. I'm talking about the state that you're occupying. So, today in this video, I want to show you how to cultivate the kind of healthy detachment that makes you irresistible, that makes you magnetic, that makes you super attractive, and that is going to make your SP crave you and pursue you and want to be around you and all these beautiful things that you've been wanting to experience.

And I'm not talking about fake detachment. I'm not talking about playing games or playing hard to get or pretending that you don't care or ignoring your SP to make them chase you. I'm not talking about any of these things. I'm talking about self-assurance. I'm talking about being able to want someone, want your SP, without making them responsible for your emotional stability. And I'm talking about being easy to be around because you're not constantly trying to control the interaction.

And I'm talking about becoming the version of yourself who can genuinely say, "Yes, I love you. Yes, I want you. Yes, I have feelings for you. Yes, I would love to be together with you, but I don't need you to prove anything to me." This is powerful. This is magnetic. This is irresistible. And this is the energy we're going to talk about today in this video. So, stay with me. Watch until the end. This is a very, very powerful video.

Before I begin, hello and welcome. My name is Kristina from Empowered Creator. I am a mindset and conscious manifesting teacher and coach, and this is my YouTube channel. Here I talk about all things law of assumption, mindset, conscious manifesting, the quantum universe, and a lot more. And my goal is to simplify everything without the fluff. So, if you guys like this content and you would like to see more of it, I would love it if you would subscribe to this channel, comment on this video, like it, share it, hype it, and stick around.

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I also occasionally still do members lives in that members channel. So, if you're interested in any of these services, the links are below in the description box. Click on them and they're going to take you to my website or to the membership channel. With all that being said, let's dive into today's video. Let's start by clarifying one of the biggest misconceptions when it comes to SP manifestation. And that is the assumption of many, many people, most people who are manifesting an SP, that wanting their SP means that they are automatically attached.

Wanting my SP means that I'm attached. Therefore, to achieve detachment means that I should stop wanting them. Well, tell me how well that works for you. Because now you are trying to detach from your desire. You are trying to not want your SP. You are trying not to have feelings about your SP. You're trying not to think about your SP. You're trying not to care about the SP. And you are telling yourself things like, "I don't care about them.

I don't care if they come back or not. Whatever happens happens." But internally, you are still thinking about that SP pretty much all the time. So, if that is you, and I know this is many of you guys watching this video and watching this channel, if that is you, know that this is not detachment, that is suppression of your feelings. And the good news is you don't have to suppress your feelings in order to achieve detachment.

You don't need to not love your SP. You don't need to not have feelings about your SP. You don't need to not think about your SP. You don't need to not miss them. You don't need to not think that they are incredibly attractive, for example. It's okay to want a relationship with them. It's okay to want them to text you. It's okay to want to be around them. It's okay to want them in your life, and so on. All of the above can be true, and yet you can still be detached.

Because detachment is not detachment from the desire. It's detachment from the need to have a specific outcome, and for that outcome to determine how you feel about yourself. And this is the huge distinction and what makes all the difference. Attachment on the one hand says, "I want you, I love you, and so I need you to give me what I want for me to feel fine." Detachment on the other hand says, "I love you, I want you, but even if I don't see any immediate evidence, I am okay, and this doesn't change who I am and who I think that I am." And that distinction matters, you guys, because when you are attached in the way that I just described, everything becomes loaded with meaning.

Did your SP text you? Okay, what does that mean? Did they not text you? What does that mean? Did they take longer to respond? Are they losing interest? Did they seem excited? Is this finally happening? Are they a little distant? What do I need to do? Why are they being distant? And suddenly, you are no longer experiencing the person and enjoying the connection, you're starting to manage the manifestation. You are managing the outcome, you are trying to force the relationship, and this is what creates so much internal tension.

On the other hand, detachment simply says, "I can want this. It's okay for me to want this, but I don't need to force it to happen." That is freedom, that is real power, and that is self-assurance. So, let's go on to talk a little bit about self-assurance, what it is, and why it's so important. I want you to think of someone you know who is genuinely self-assured. Someone who knows that they're attractive, someone who knows their value, someone who knows they're lovable, someone who knows that they have options.

Does that person walk into a relationship or into a connection thinking, "How do I make this person like me?" No, most likely they walk into the connection thinking, "Let's see how we feel together. Let's see how we jive together. Let's see we're compatible." These, as you can understand, are two very different energies. They're not auditioning for their SP, they're not performing for their SP, they're not looking for the perfect thing to say, they're not constantly monitoring the other person's reactions.

Instead, they are relaxed, they are calm, they are self-assured. They are curious, they are genuinely engaged in the moment, and they are truly and honestly and genuinely enjoying the interaction. And this is exactly what I'm talking about when I'm saying that someone is magnetic. It's not about being the most attractive person in the room, it's not about being mysterious, it's not about playing hard to get, it's something much, much simpler.

It's about how you feel in your own presence. Notice the difference between the two energies. The insecure energy, the attached energy, the non-magnetic energy, is the energy that says, "Please, please, please, I need you to like me. Please like me. Please choose me. Please don't lose interest in me." Whereas the detached energy, the magnetic energy, the attractive energy, is "I like you. Let's see where this goes. Let's see how we jive together.

I would love to explore more possibilities with you. At the same time, I am completely being myself." So, think about these two energies and think, which one is more attractive? Which one is more alluring? Which one creates space for the other person to actually move towards you? And one of my favorite ways to describe a magnetic presence and a magnetic state and a magnetic aura, if you will, is a presence and a state and that conveys [clears throat] to the other person through your way of being that I'm happy that you're here as opposed to please don't leave.

Please don't leave me. That is magnetic. That is why detachment is so powerful because you're no longer trying to extract something from the interaction, from the relationship, from the connection, and so on. You are simply and genuinely participating in it. Now, let's talk about chasing because chasing also has a lot to do with attachment. And the distinction I want to make here is that chasing doesn't always happen in the 3D.

It's not always physical chasing. A lot of the times, it can be internal chasing. It can be energetic chasing. You could still say nothing and do nothing in the 3D and still be chasing internally and energetically. You could still not send your SP even one line, not even one text, not even a hello, and yet spend hours pondering within yourself and thinking obsessively, what are they doing? What are they up to? Are they thinking about me?

Why haven't they texted me? Are they going to text me? Are they with someone else? Could they choose someone else over me? Should I post this? Will they see it? How can I make them miss me? How can I make them wonder about me? That is still chasing, you guys. It's a very much still chasing because you are centering your entire being and your entire mindset and mental energy around getting a response from them, getting a reaction from them.

And this is where I want you to start monitoring yourself and noticing your own behavior and genuinely observing how much of what you're doing is about genuinely expressing yourself and who you are, and how much of it is trying to produce an outcome. Maybe you're posting something because you're genuinely excited about it and you genuinely love that thing that you posted about. Okay, great. Or maybe you're posting something on social media in the hopes that your SP will see it and perhaps get jealous.

So, that is a very different energy. Maybe you want to text your SP because you genuinely care to check on them. Okay, great. Or maybe you have something to share. Fantastic. Or maybe you want to text your SP because you need reassurance and you need that validation and you need that confirmation that they still care about you. Very different energy. Maybe you feel the urge to tell your SP that you miss them. Okay, great.

That is expressing yourself. If, however, you are saying that in the hopes that it will produce a particular reaction in them and that you will perhaps get a response along the same lines from them, then that is very much worth examining. And I'm not saying all this in the sense that you need to become robotic or that you need to analyze every interaction or every urge to do anything. No, but the focus point, the question you need to be asking yourself when you feel these kinds of urges is what state is this coming from?

What state am I coming from? You see, guys, detachment doesn't necessarily change your behavior, but what it does change is why you're behaving in a certain way versus another way. And this brings me to another really, really, really important point because I don't want you to take what I just said and make it mean something along the lines of, "Okay, Christina said that I need to be detached, so that means that I'm never going to text my SP first ever again." No, that is not what I'm saying.

I'm not saying that you never text first. I'm not saying that you need to be playing games. I'm not saying that you need to deliberately take, I don't know, 6 hours to respond just because. You don't need to withhold affection. You don't need to disappear. You don't need to try to make your SP jealous. You don't need to pretend that you're busy. You don't need to pretend that you don't care. Again, none of these things.

These are playing games. And the thing you need to understand here is if you're doing any or some of these things or even all of these things in order to get a reaction, guess what? You're still attached to the outcome. You're still chasing. You're just doing it from the opposite direction. So for example, you may be thinking, "If I don't text them, then they'll miss me." "If I pull away, they will come closer. If I act as if I don't care, then they will realize how much they care." That is still very much coming from a vibrational frequency of what do I do to make them behave differently?

How can I make them do what I want them to do? Instead of that, imagine something else. Imagine that you are secure enough to respond and to act authentically. If you want to text them, text them. If you want to initiate, initiate. If you want to express affection, very good, express affection. If you don't feel like doing something, then don't do it. If you feel like taking space, great, take space. But from this new vibrational frequency, you are no longer using your behavior as a way to produce a reaction.

You're not constantly asking, "What action or what reaction of mine will bring me the manifestation?" Instead, you're asking, "What is the most genuine expression of who I am and of the version of myself who already knows that I'm wanted?" You're not trying to become some perfectly strategic version of yourself who knows exactly how to make the other person behave how you want them to behave. No, you are becoming you.

You, but without the desperation, without the need for constant validation, without the constant fear of losing them. You, but without putting them on a pedestal. And this is a very good point and a good segue into the next point I wanted to make. You need to stop making your SP the only person who has the option and the ability and the freedom to choose. So so many people approach SP manifestation from a point of view of how do I make them choose me?

While they're forgetting that wait a minute, I can choose, too. You're not sitting you guys in front of some judge trying to find out if you are worthy of being chosen for the relationship. You are also participating in this relationship equally. You are assessing equally. You are vetting the other person equally. You are someone who chooses, too. End of story. Instead of asking, do they want me? Try asking instead, are we good together?

Do we have a good time together? Are we compatible? You're stressing about whether they will choose you or not. Try to remember, hey, I choose, too. You're anxious about them seeing your value. Try instead, I know my value. Now, how does this relationship reflect that value? And by the way, because a lot of you get confused when it comes to that, that does not mean that you are rejecting your desire or that you're letting go of your manifestation.

Doesn't mean that you stop wanting them or that you need to stop wanting them. It means that you can want them. Absolutely, you can want them. But still, you're not placing them above yourself. You're not making getting their attention the prize. And this is one of the most important points when we're talking about becoming attractive, becoming magnetic, becoming irresistible to the other person. When you're trying to be chosen and you are auditioning to be chosen and you're auditioning for love and you're auditioning for your value to be seen and recognized, you are unconsciously putting your SP in the position of power.

When you remember though that you choose also, then you reclaim your power. You take your power back. And this is what changes the energy entirely because all of a sudden you become calmer, you become less anxious, you become less performative, you become possibly less needy. You become more playful, you become more enjoyable, you become more fun to be around, you become yourself. And this is exactly the energy that people want to be around and the energy that they find magnetic and attractive and irresistible.

And this point actually brings us directly back to our favorite Neville Goddard because Neville, more than any other teacher of the law, talked so much about feeling the feeling of naturalness. Which by the way is also one of the most misunderstood points of conscious manifestation because when people think that I need to be this in the state of the wishful field, I need to be in the end state, they misunderstand it and they interpret it as I need to always be euphoric, I need to be positive 24/7, I need to never be sad, I need to never have opposing thoughts.

And it's not about that, it's all about naturalness. Naturalness is much more quiet than all of this. It's all about knowing and living in the knowing that whatever you want is already yours. You already have it. And that it is possible for you to have it and that you can absolutely have it. And being in that state of naturalness means that you're not constantly feeling the need to look for proof, for example. And this is the exact same state that you want to cultivate around your SP and about your SP.

It's not I need to convince myself that my SP craves me. No. It's Of course I'm craved. Of course I'm wanted. Of course I'm desirable. Of course my SP loves being around me. Of course they think about me. Of course, I am valued. Notice that there is no strain in that. There is no desperation in that. There's no how do I make this happen and the anxiety that comes with that. It's simply knowing that this is who I am. And this is why detachment, you guys, is so powerful because you're not detaching in order to make your manifestation happen.

You are detaching because you are becoming the version of yourself who knows and realizes that what they want is theirs and there is absolutely no need to chase it. So, every time you catch yourself thinking about how to make your SP crave you or miss you or pursue you or commit to you or want to be around you or wonder about you and so on, you want to pause and take a few breaths and instead shift to if I knew that they wanted me, if I knew that they craved me, if I knew that they absolutely loved being around me, how would I feel?

Who would I be? Would you still be checking their social media or over-analyzing their last text? Or trying to figure out how to make them chase you? Or would you simply be living your life, enjoying your life, and knowing that yes, they absolutely love you. This is the difference between attachment and detachment. And this is also the difference between being someone who's chasing, someone who's auditioning for their SP's love, and someone who always attractive, magnetic, irresistible, someone who their SP craves, someone who their SP wants to pursue and is pursuing, and someone who they genuinely want to be around and who they want to be with and so on.

So, detachment is not not caring. Detachment is caring, but without abandoning yourself. It's wanting your SP, but without putting them on a pedestal. It's having feelings about your SP without needing them to have certain behaviors to prove to you that you are worthy. Detachment is being able to enjoy things without constantly feeling the need to control where things are going. It's feeling okay to initiate, but without chasing.

It's being able to express affection without needing that constant reassurance. And it's about being able to give space without interpreting space as a rejection towards you. This is what detachment is. Most most most importantly, it's knowing that you are the prize without needing anyone else to actually hand you the trophy that says that you are the prize. You are not becoming magnetic by making yourself harder to get.

You are becoming magnetic by making yourself harder to shake from who you truly and really and genuinely are. When you know who you are, when you trust yourself, when you don't feel like you need to try to control the outcome, when you stop auditioning for love, when you stop asking, "How do I make my SP to crave me?" you start living from a place where you know that they do, you know that you are deeply craved, deeply loved, deeply wanted, deeply desired, and so on.

That is the state, that is detachment, that is magnetism, and that is who I want you to start practicing being starting today, starting right now, this very moment. Remember, you are the one who chooses, and remember, you don't have to chase something that is already yours. Instead, you become the person who feels comfortable knowing that truth. With all that being said, I'm going to wrap up this video here. I intend that this has helped.

As always, I very much appreciate you guys being on this channel, watching this content. I love making this content for you. And as always, I look forward to seeing you all at the next video. Until then, take care, and bye-bye.