How I Would Manifest My SP If I Started Today | Law Of Assumption transcript

If I had to manifest my specific person starting today from scratch, no movement, no signs, perhaps even no contact, here is exactly what I would do. And I'm going to be quite honest here. I would probably take quite a bit of a different approach to what a lot of people teach because what a lot of people do when they're trying to manifest an SP is actually keeping them stuck. So, in this video, I'm going to walk you through my entire approach, full approach, step-by-step.

What I would pay attention to, what I would actually ignore, and how I would get results faster. So, stay with me till the end. Before I begin, hello and welcome. My name is Christina from Empowered Creator. I am a mindset and conscious manifesting teacher and coach, and this is my YouTube channel. Here I talk about all things law of assumption, mindset, conscious manifesting, the universe, and a lot more. And my goal is to simplify everything without the fluff.

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So, if you're interested in any of these services, the links are below in the description box. Click on them, and they're going to take you to my website or to my membership channel. With all that being said, let's dive into today's video. Now, what I'm going to teach you today in this video is not theory. It's actually based on my experience. What I know to work, what I know not to work, what actually creates movement, because what you want to keep in mind, you guys, is that when you're manifesting a specific person, you are not trying to change the person.

We've said that many, many times in many other videos. You are changing who you are being. You are changing the version of yourself. And once you do understand that and you do embody that, everything becomes much simpler, much easier, and results follow much, much faster. So, before I would even begin to manifest my specific person, I would make sure that my self-concept is on point. Now, that doesn't mean necessarily that you have to delay manifesting your specific person, doing your inner practice to manifest your specific person, and just spend a month or two or longer doing self-concept work only, although you can, of course, choose to do that.

There is nothing wrong in that. You can do them in tandem, but what I do mean and what I am trying to say is that it's very, very important to start manifesting a specific person or really any desire, for that matter, from a self-concept that is already high, that is already on point. And by working on my self-concept, let's clarify this, I don't mean that I would be repeating I'm amazing and things like that 100 times a day and hoping that it sticks.

What I mean is that I would actually get myself into a better mental and emotional place about myself and about the past, if there was a past with my SP or if there was a pattern or if there were patterns that I had seen and noticed and observed in my previous relationships. And there's a very, very simple reason for that. If I'm still holding on to energies like I wasn't good enough, I wasn't chosen, I was hurt, then whatever I do after that still comes from that energy.

So, the first thing I would want to do would be to clean that up. I would look at the old story and instead of replaying and recycling the pain and the hurt that I felt back then, which is what a lot of people do, I would reframe it. And I'm not talking about reframing it in a delusional way. That's what a lot of coaches teach, and I don't think it's correct. I don't think it's helping people. So, you don't want to be reframing it in a delusional way, but you do want to be reframing it in an empowering way.

For example, instead of thinking and feeling they rejected me, I got rejected, I would try and shift that to something along the lines of maybe I wasn't valuing myself enough at that time, and that got reflected back to me. So, you want something like that. Or how my SP was showing up in the old story was based on the version of myself that I was being at the time and that was being reflected back to me. So, that removes blame from your SP, removes resentment from within yourself, but also returns the power back to you.

Because what you're now telling yourself is that if my old state created that old version and those old stories, that means that my new version can now create something different. I have the power to create something different. Another thing you could do, and it's completely up to you if you want to do it, it works for some people, some other people don't quite like it, but you could also bring in revision. So, bring in parts of that old story, incidents, events from that old story that may still be triggering, may still be hurting, and rewrite them, reimagine them.

I would see them choosing me. I would see them showing up differently. I would see the version of events that align with what I want, and so on. And once again, this is not to be delusional. This is not to be in denial. This is, instead, to bring yourself emotionally to a new place and to stop anchoring yourself emotionally to a place where you no longer want to be. You can also do revision, and I've talked about that in other videos, through forgiveness.

So, if you're forgiving the past, you're forgiving your SP, you're forgiving yourself for what you may have unconsciously created from your old versions, you stop holding on to resentment that still keeps you stuck and anchored onto these old stories. Because as we know, you cannot move into a new reality while you're still emotionally living in the old one. So, before anything else, I would make sure that I would feel safe, secure, and emotionally stable within myself.

Because remember, self-concept is not just affirmations. It's the lens through which you experience everything, and once that shifts, everything becomes so much easier. So, you absolutely want to have a self-concept that is on point. Now, once this is done and completed, the manifesting work actually begins. So, first of all, I would do my best to cut out the old story. So, every time the old version of them or the old story would come to mind, I would make sure that I didn't dwell on it.

I would say things like that version of the story is irrelevant now. That is done and over with. I am creating a different version of reality now. I am creating a different version of my SP now. My SP is different now. I would say things along those lines, and I would think along those lines, and I would do my best to feel along those lines, and I would make a very, very firm decision and commitment around that because I wouldn't want to keep feeding the old story, the old reality, the old patterns, and so on.

Remember that the movement, the movement we always talk about, there's always movement behind the scenes, that is true, but your movement starts the moment you stop feeding the old reality and you start feeding the new reality instead. So, if I was you and if I was manifesting my SP starting today, I would stop feeding the old reality completely or at least to the best of my ability. The next thing I would do would be to get very, very clear on the end result that I want.

And the end result could be something that is very big or seemingly big. For example, we are married. Or it could be something where you go step-by-step. So, they break no contact or we're texting every day or they're taking me out of on dates. But whatever it might be, you want to be very, very clear on what that new reality actually is. What it is exactly that you are manifesting. And of course, I'm not talking about the middle.

I'm not talking about the how. I'm not talking about the when. I'm primarily talking about the what. What is it that I want happening? Do I want to be married to them? Okay, great. Do I want them to be texting me every day? Great. Do I want to be in daily contact with them? Fantastic. Are we in a committed relationship? Are we secure, happy, and consistent together? So, you want to decide on that sort of thing. And then, once I decided that, I would define it very, very clearly and very, very simply.

For example, we are in a happy, loving, committed relationship. They prioritize me and they love being with me. That sort of thing. And one other thing that is important here, and I do see quite a few people doing that, I would stay steady and stable in that decision. I wouldn't change it every day based on how I felt or on something that might have happened in the 3D. I would stay very, very stable and steady and committed to my vision.

You want to have that clarity because clarity creates direction, and indecision actually creates instability. So, you want to have the clarity, you won't have the direct You want to have the direction, you want to be loyal to your vision, no matter what. Now, the next step, one of the most important parts, if not the most important part, is the identity shift. And of course, this is where a lot of people get confused or a lot of people go wrong or a lot of people kind of skip this step, which is a big mistake.

So, this is a hugely, hugely important factor, a hugely important thing to do. You want to be shifting your identity. And you are not adopting your new identity from the point of view of trying to get them. You are instead focusing on being the version of yourself who already has them, who already knows that the SP is theirs. So, if in your reality, you are, for example, very anxious or you're checking your phone all the time or you're checking for movement all the time or you're wondering if they like you or you're wondering if they ever want to be with you or be back together with you and that sort of thing, this obviously is not the identity that you want to be adopting.

No, you are secure. You are chosen. You are wanted and you feel this way. You feel like the person who is secure, who is chosen, who is wanted, and who knows this. So, I would start embodying that version of myself to the best of my ability. Obviously, you don't have to be perfect. Obviously, there will be times when you waver, but you do want to do your best to be consistent. So, if I was you, I would be doing my best to stay very, very consistent.

If, for example, you have thoughts of, "What if they don't text me?" No, you want to shift that. You want to relax, first of all, take a few deep breaths, relax your nervous system, and shift that to "Of course, they're going to text me. Of course, they love communicating with me." And that is not to force positivity, that is to reinforce the new identity that you have decided to claim for yourself. Because remember, you're not manifesting what you want, you are manifesting what feels true to you.

You're manifesting who you are being in your inner world. And so, it's very, very important to start reinforcing that new identity with your thoughts, with your actions, with how you're showing up in the 3D, with how you feel about yourself and about your SP to the best of your ability and as consistently as possible. And very, very closely tied to that is what we call and what you have probably heard a lot of other coaches call the mental diet.

So, this isn't so much about trying to control every individual thought. I understand this probably becomes exhausting. Actually, I know that this does become exhausting after a while. So, it's not about that. It's more about developing awareness around what are your dominant patterns when it comes to your thoughts. And of course, when you have thoughts, you also have feelings that accompany these thoughts. These two go together.

So, if I was you, I would notice if I'm constantly thinking and feeling like, "Oh, they don't care. Oh, I'm being ignored." Well, I would do my very best to actually interrupt that thought pattern. And I wouldn't do that in a panicky way, I would do that in a redirecting way. No, of course, they care. No, of course, I am their priority. Of course, they want to talk to me. Of course, they love hearing from me. And remember, the goal is not perfection here.

The goal is direction and the goal is consistency. The goal is to give your mind a direction about where you want it to go majority of the time, where you want it to go most consistently, most dominantly. That's what you're trying to build. Because ultimately, you guys, this is what ends up shaping your reality. Where you're directing your thoughts is also where you're directing your feelings and where you're directing your state.

Next thing I would do, if I was using affirmations or any sort of techniques, I would actually keep it simple. You don't need long, complicated routines, a few simple affirmations, a few simple inner conversations, one or two very short scenes that imply what you want are all you need. Keep it simple, you guys. They love being with me. I'm always chosen. We're in a happy, secure, committed relationship. That sort of thing.

There is no need to overcomplicate, overanalyze, work in very elaborate words or, you know, have each affirmation be three sentences, four sentences long or anything like that. Keep it simple is my advice. At least this is what I would do if I was you. And of course, if I still had some resistance around my SP, I would make a routine out of that. So, twice a day, three times a day, I would take a few minutes to repeat these affirmations, these inner conversations, do my imaginal scenes, whatever it is that you have chosen.

Um a lot of people like doing it when they first wake up in the morning, before going to going to bed at night. I'm personally not so much of a stickler of when you do it, but I do think it's beneficial to spread it out around your day if you're able to. Also, it might be beneficial to remind yourself of your affirmations or your imaginal acts or your inner conversations, whatever it is that you have chosen, when you catch yourself overthinking and when you catch yourself doubting and wavering.

It can actually be beneficial to go back to your affirmations. And the reason why you want to be doing this routine and the reason why I would do this routine if I was you and manifesting my SP right now is not because the words have any sort of magic or anything like that. It's very, very simple. It's based on neuroscience, actually. Repetition creates familiarity. And familiarity, over some time, creates belief. In other words, you are slowly and gently and consistently brainwashing yourself into the new reality that you desire.

This is why repetition is so important. What I would also do, again, to the best of my ability, of course, is I would stop checking that 3D. And this is a big one, you guys. No stalking of their social media. No overanalyzing of their texts or your interactions. No looking for signs. I mean, it's okay if you do that very occasionally and a little bit here and there. It's not the end of the world, but if you're in the habit of doing that all the time or consistently or frequently enough, you want to start reducing that habit.

You want to start cutting out that habit. And the reason for that is because you are always feeding the narrative of, "Do I have it yet? Is it here yet? Where is it?" And you want to be in an energy that is opposite to that. You want to be in an energy that feels secure and confident and powerful and empowered, where you do feel and you do believe that, "Yeah, I do have that. That is sorted. That is working out for me.

That is unfolding for me. Everything is fine." So, I would do my very best here to discipline myself. Again, it's not about perfection, it's not about never, ever, ever doing it. If you do it every now and then, it's not the end of the world, but you do want to do it consistently and you do want to build a habit of actually trusting your inner world more than you are trusting the external world. Now, one last thing that is also very, very big and very important, and then I'm going to go into a few common mistakes before I wrap up this video.

One last big thing and very important thing that we've talked about in so many videos is detachment, but the real version of detachment, not what most people confuse for detachment. Most people hear detachment and think that it means, "I shouldn't think about my SP. I shouldn't want my SP. I shouldn't want the manifestation. I should drop the manifestation. I should drop the desire." Thankfully, you guys, it's none of these things.

What detachment actually is is that you stop needing constant reassurance. And the reason you no longer need constant reassurance is because you are learning to trust your inner world and your inner creative power and your inner creative process over anything and everything that you may see on the external. So, what actually really, really helps to build some detachment is to make sure that you give yourself a full life, whatever that means for each one of you.

So, regardless of what your SP might be doing or might not be doing, we don't care. They are ours, right? Remember, they are yours. So, we don't care what they're doing or what they're not doing. What we are doing instead is that we are pursuing our goals. We are seeing our friends or having a full social life, if that's what we want. We're enjoying our day. We do things that we love, things that make us happy, things that, as I like to say, fill our heart with joy.

And that's not to create a distraction, as many people think. You are doing this instead as a natural extension of feeling secure. When you're feeling secure, you don't feel the need to be checking all the time, to be reassured by the 3D all the time. No, you also have energy and you have an appetite and a desire to taste other aspects of your life as well, to build other aspects of your life, to enjoy other aspects of your life.

This is what real detachment looks like. And very, very simply, what that means for your SP manifestation is that the version of you who already has their SP is simply not sitting around waiting all day, right? Now, let me briefly go over some of the most common mistakes that a lot of people make when they're manifesting an SP. These, you guys, are the things that I would avoid completely if I was manifesting my SP starting today.

So, the biggest things I would avoid would be changing my techniques or my affirmations every few days, constantly looking for signs, obsessing over timing, over the how, over the when, the how long. Another big one is putting them on a pedestal. And the biggest one, in my opinion, the most important one, in my opinion, the biggest no-no, is thinking of your SP and perceiving your SP as the source of your happiness. No one is the source of your happiness, you guys.

The secret is that the source of your happiness is your own state. And no surprise here, your state is what also creates your outcomes. So, if I had to sum this up, it would be like this. Decide what you want, become the version of yourself who already has it to the best of your ability, and persist in the knowing that this is now your reality, no matter what the 3D may temporarily, and in the beginning, look like. That's it, and it's not about doing anything complicated.

It's pretty much all about staying as consistent as you can and committing to your decision and committing to your vision. So, let me know in the comments, if you want, if you're manifesting your SP right now. I know many of you are. What is it that you're most struggling with right now? What is it from this video that hit you the most, that resonated with you the most? I always love to hear your thoughts, your opinions, your comments.

And if you follow the process that I outlined in this video, there is no doubt that your SP is going to be in your life, or back in your life, or whatever each one of you is manifesting with their SP, very, very soon and very successfully. With all that being said, I'm going to wrap up this video here. I intend that this has helped. As always, I very much appreciate you guys being on this channel, watching this content.

I love making this content for you. And as always, I look forward to seeing you all at the next video. Until then, take care and bye-bye.