This Is Why Your SP Manifestation Still Feels So Far Away | Law Of Assumption transcript

I'm sure many of you can relate to this experience while manifesting your SP where you know everything that you're supposed to know. So for example, you know that the 3D isn't final. You know that circumstances can change. You know about self-concept. You know about the law of assumption. You know that you're not supposed to obsess over the 3D or what your SP is doing or not doing. And yet your SP manifestation still feels very very far away.

And obviously I'm not talking about physical distance here. There may or may not be physical distance between you and your SP. There may or may not be no contact. I'm not talking so much about that. I'm talking about this internal feeling where you are feeling like I'm over here and my SP is all the way over there. or they have their life and I'm waiting for them to come into mine or I feel that something needs to change in the 3D for me to feel secure about this.

This is what I mean when I say that your SP manifestation feels far away. So, if you've been in that place, and chances are if you're watching this video, you are in that place, this is the video for you because today in this video, we're going to be talking about something that is very often overlooked when we talk about SP manifestation. Because the problem is not usually what a lot of people think it may be. It's not not knowing enough about manifestation.

In fact, a lot of the times the problem may be that you know too much. You know all the terminology. You know how you're supposed to think, how you're supposed to feel. You know what state you're supposed to be in. You know that you need to affirm or visualize or imagine in some way or other. And yet you're still experiencing internally your SP as something that is way out there from you that you are yet to get that you are yet to manifest.

So this is what I want to address in today's video. We're going to look at why this happens and most importantly, what do we do to close that distance? Because believe it or not, the answer to this and the solution to this is not you spending even more time trying to convince yourself that your SP is here. It's not about that. Instead, there is something much deeper going on that we're going to unpack together today in this video.

So stay and watch until the end. Before I begin, hello and welcome. My name is Christina from Empowered Creator. I am a mindset and conscious manifesting teacher and coach and this is my YouTube channel. Here I talk about all things law of assumption, mindset, conscious manifesting, the quantum universe and a lot more. And my goal is to simplify everything without the fluff. So if you guys like this content and you would like to see more of it, I would love it if you would subscribe to this channel, comment on this video, like it, share it, hype it, and stick around.

Also, if you need help with your specific situation, I offer one-on-one coaching, email coaching, as well as custom subliminals for whatever needs you may have. I also have some self-study courses about manifesting your specific person. I am starting some monthly group coaching calls. Check them out in my website. The links will be below. And I also have a members channel with a lot of perks for members, including a whole library of more than 250 hours of live sessions that I have done for members that include in-depth teachings on a huge variety of manifestation topics as well as Q&A, me answering the members questions.

By the way, I still do members lives on the members channel. Uh there is also a lot of exclusive content in this channel including meditations, subliminals, webinars. you get early access to all of my videos and a lot of other perks. So, if you're interested in any of these services, the links are below in the description box. Click on them and they're going to take you to my website or to my membership channel. With all that being said, let's dive into today's video.

So, let's start here. And this is something that I alluded to already in my intro. What does it mean for your SP to feel far away? For your SP manifestation to feel far away. We are not necessarily talking about physical distance. Although this could be a factor in your manifestation. This could be a circumstance in your manifestation. Maybe you're in no contact. Maybe you are truly physically very far away from your SP.

But we're not talking about physical distance. In fact, physical distance has nothing to do because someone who is in an aligned internal state could very well be feeling their SP right here with them, present with them at all times. even though they could physically be thousands of miles away. So, we're not talking about physical distance when we're talking about your SP feeling far away and your SP manifestation feeling far away.

The question that we need to ask here is what does this mean internally to you? What does your SP mean internally to you? There is a huge difference between feeling that I want to experience this relationship and feeling that I need this person and as such I need them to do something or at least say something for me to feel loved and wanted and secure and chosen and worthy and so on. These you guys are very very different places to create from and a lot of the times we don't even notice the difference.

A lot of the times it just feels like, oh, I just want my SP. I just want my SP manifestation. And yet we've crossed that line without realizing. A lot of the time what is underneath the desire that we are conscious of, the desire to have this SP, experience a relationship with them, and so on is something along the lines of once they come back into my life, then I'm going to feel chosen. Once they text me, then I'm going to feel wanted.

Once they commit to me, then I'll be able to feel secure. Once the relationship is here, then I'll finally be able to relax and so on. And if this is what's happening, which by the way is what is happening with many many many of you is that yes, your SP is going to feel very far away and your SP manifestation is going to feel very very far away for you because you are putting all your power and all the evidence of who you are in somebody else's hands, in your SP's hands.

Okay? And this is one of the biggest things that I want you guys to consider. What is your identity underneath your manifestation? For example, you could be saying, "I have my SP. Me and my SP are in a happy, romantic, committed relationship." You could be saying, "I am loved. I am chosen. I am wanted." You could be doing affirmations all day. You could be doing visualizations. You could be doing SATs. You could be listening to subliminals.

You name it. You could be doing a bunch of techniques. But if the underlying feeling underneath the desire and underneath the manifestation is I'm trying to get my SP and ultimately this is why I'm doing all of this. Then what you're doing is that you are reinforcing the identity and the state of someone who is trying to get something. And this is where manifestation often times starts to become exhausting because you are starting to view it and to look at it and to approach it as a project.

How do I make my SP text me? How do I make my SP commit to me? What affirmations should I use? Should I visualize? Should I think about them? Should I not think about them? Should I contact them? Should I not contact them? Should I detach? What if they don't contact me? What if this doesn't work? What if they're with someone else? What if they don't want the relationship? What if this takes too long? And suddenly you are not experiencing yourself as the person who has the relationship.

Instead, you are experiencing yourself as the person who is standing outside of it, looking inside, wanting it but not having it, and trying to get it. So essentially what I'm trying to get you to start observing and noticing about yourself and how you're approaching your manifestation is who you are in relation to that desire and in relation to that manifestation. That is a very very important question. And here is where I would like to challenge you a little bit and I do that with my coaching clients as well.

When your SP and or your SP manifestation feels very far away to you, where does your mind automatically go? Most likely, it goes to them. When are they going to text me? What are they up to? Why are they acting like this? Why haven't they changed? Are they ever going to commit? Are they ever going to come back? Why did they say that? Why aren't they showing me or giving me what I want? The list is endless. I completely understand why your mind naturally goes there, but you need to start training your mind to instead take on a different question.

Instead of asking, why is my SP doing this or that or not doing this or that, you want to start asking, "What does whatever it is that my SP is doing or not doing mean to me about me?" Let that sink in. What is my SP's behavior or how they're showing up in the 3D mean to me about me? Because as I've often said in many, many videos, it very often isn't the event itself that creates the state. It is the meaning that you give to the event.

If your SP doesn't text you, for example, or takes a while to text you back or whatever it might be, your mind might go to they're ignoring me. They don't want to talk to me. They don't care enough. They're not prioritizing me. You get it? So, this is not necessarily the event that your state is responding to. It's actually the meaning, the story that you're building around it. And this is where getting these manifestation teachings and actually embodying them.

Not just paring them, not just blindly trying to apply them, but embodying them becomes really, really interesting and really, really important and really bound to bring you results. because we're not just trying to change our circumstances. We are looking at our own internal logic, at our own internal reason behind the circumstances. In other words, what assumption is underneath your reaction to the circumstances? And here's another question you could ask yourself to illustrate this a little better.

Does your SP's behavior or how they're showing up determine how you feel about yourself? For example, if they text you, do you feel more secure? If they don't text you, do you feel rejected? If they show interest in you, do you feel powerful? If they don't show interest in you, do you feel powerless? You see something encouraging in the 3D, do you think, "Oh, yay. This must be working." And if you see something that you don't like so much, or if you don't see any movement, do you start thinking, "Oh, this is not working." And if the answer to these is yes, then what you're doing is that you are allowing your 3D to dictate your identity.

Now, I know you're going to say, "But Christina, I'm just responding. I'm just reacting to the circumstances. I'm just reacting to their behavior." And yes, I get that. You are human. We're all human. We have reactions. We have emotional states. We are allowed to react from time to time. It's not about that. I'm not telling you to become perfectly calm, a perfect robot that never feels anything, never is shaken by anything.

It's not about that. It's all about noticing and observing and becoming aware of when your reactions to the 3D become your identity and dictate your self-concept and your image of yourself. Yes, you can have moments where you feel disappointed. Yes, you can have moments when you don't like something that your SP did or said or didn't do or didn't say. Yes, you can feel triggered at times, but then you come back to yourself.

And that is very, very different from taking whatever it is that happened in the 3D and making it into a meaning in and of itself. This happened, therefore I'm not wanted, therefore I'm not rejected. This is where the pattern is. And this is where that pattern becomes important. Now, for the next section of this video, I want you to sit with this question, which might in the beginning feel a little uncomfortable, but I still want you to sit with it.

I want you to ask yourself, what am I waiting for? What am I waiting for my SP to do? Maybe you're waiting for them to break no contact. Maybe you're waiting for an apology. Maybe you're waiting for them to make your relationship exclusive, to commit. Maybe you're waiting for them to finally recognize your worth or become the version of themselves that you've been dreaming of and hoping to experience. But here's where it becomes really, really interesting.

And that is the follow-up question for you to ask yourself. What do I believe that getting this will give me? And this is where it becomes really interesting because this is where you uncover what is underneath the core desire. So for example, let's say that your answer is I want them to choose me. Okay. Why? Why do you want them to choose you? Because for example, I want to feel loved. Okay. Why is it important for you to feel loved?

Because I want to feel secure. And why do you want to feel secure? Because I want to know, for example, that I am good enough, that I am enough. This is it. This is where it is. And this is where we come back to self-concept. And this is why I so often talk about self-concept nowadays in my videos. Not because you need to have the perfect self-concept or because having a good self-concept is some magic trick to get your manifestation.

No, it's because your self-concept is inevitably tied to your manifestation. Because your manifestation, the relationship that you're trying to create with your SP is inevitably tied to the way in which you see yourself. And so if you have an SP, if you want an SP, you're manifesting an SP and you are relying on them to prove to you that you are enough by something they do by the way in which they're showing up, then you are placing a huge burden on them and you are disempowering yourself in a major way.

And here is something that I also want you to sit with and consider and meditate on. Okay? You do not need your SP to prove to you that you are worthy in order to know that you already are worthy. Your SP doesn't have to text you before you know that you are chosen. Your SP does not have to commit to you before you can feel secure. Your SP doesn't have to choose you before you know that you are desirable. And they certainly don't have to behave perfectly and show up in a perfect way for you to know that you are worthy of love and commitment and of being chosen and of someone who is showing up great within a relationship.

Because the problem that comes with making their behavior, making how they're showing up responsible for what you believe about yourself is that you are then keeping yourself stuck in the 3D. You're going to keep checking. You're going to keep looking. You are going to keep looking for signs that they have changed, little pieces of evidence here and there. Maybe they text one day and you feel amazing. and then maybe they don't ask for another two days and all of a sudden you're back to spiraling because this is exhausting and it certainly isn't freedom.

You are manifesting to better your life. You are manifesting to have some better experiences. You are manifesting to feel free. This is not freedom. This is keeping yourself prisoner to your SP's reactions and how they're showing up. And manifestation, at least the way I teach it, is not about becoming more dependent on circumstances. It's about becoming more secure internally. And this is exactly where this thing that you hear a lot, this statement that you hear a lot in the manifesting community, you already have your SP, tends to get grossly misunderstood.

Which brings me to the next very very important part of this video. What does you already have your SP actually mean? It doesn't mean that you are walking around trying to convince yourself that your physical circumstances are different to what they they currently are. It doesn't mean looking at someone looking at your SP where you have no contact for example and convince yourself that you are together in a relationship and they're standing right next to you right now and so on.

It doesn't mean denying reality. All it means is that you start identifying viewing yourself, right? Looking at yourself as the person who already has what they want. What does that mean? If you're looking at the 3D and you're drawing your conclusions from the 3D, this is what I'm seeing in the 3D and therefore this is who I am. This is very very different to if I know myself to be loved and worthy and chosen and wanted and secure and someone who is in happy healthy relationships because they are deserving of them.

Then I don't have to wait for another person to behave a certain way to show up in a certain way to know who I truly am. I don't have to wait for them to change in order to occupy that identity internally. That's what I mean and that's what is meant in the manifesting community by you already have them. It means that you can invoke the feelings, the states, the identity within yourself that would align with already having them in the 3D.

You are not forcing the 3D to comply. You are not trying to control another person. You are simply changing your relationship with that desire, how you view the situation with this person, and ultimately how you approach your manifestation. And this, you guys, is what actually brings the results. This is what brings your SP. So, speaking of that, here's another question that I'm being asked a lot. How does it feel like or how is it going to feel like when that distance feels like it's closing?

In other words, when I'm getting into a more aligned state, how am I going to know that I'm in that state? This is where a lot of people get confused because they tend to think that I'm going to know that I'm in an aligned state, right? When I start feeling euphoric, for example, or if I suddenly never have another opposing thought or if I suddenly feel 100% certain. Well, not necessarily. Not necessarily. sometimes and actually I dare say a lot of the time most of the time the shift is actually much more subtle.

So for example you naturally stop checking as much. You naturally stop looking for signs in the 3D as much and for evidence. Suddenly maybe you are thinking about your SP and not feeling that not in your stomach anymore. Suddenly you may not feel the need to know what they're up to or where they are or what they're doing every single second. Suddenly you don't feel like you need to master or figure out the next technique that is going to bring you your SP.

You stop asking perhaps when is it finally happening? And maybe the biggest one you start feeling okay with your life once again. That is not giving up on your SP by the way cuz a lot of people get confused about that. That's not giving up on your desire, not giving up on wanting the relationship with your SP. You're not trying to move on or anything like that. It's just that you are now no longer putting your life on hold for this manifestation.

You can still want this relationship and look forward to it and feel excited about having it and all these beautiful things, but at the same time, you still go to work with a lot of energy. You still go make dinner. You still make plans with your friends. You still pursue your hobbies. You still pursue your interests. You laugh. You have some good days. You have some bad days. You're experiencing life and you're open to experiencing life as it is.

Your SP doesn't disappear as a desire, but they stop consuming your identity. And perhaps ironically or perhaps not. This is exactly when usually things start shifting and when your manifestation starts feeling a lot more natural. So rather than asking yourself, how do I get my SP to feel closer? How do I make my manifestation of my SP feel closer? Instead, you want to ask yourself, if I knew I already had my SP, who would I be right now?

Not tomorrow. Not when they text, not when they break no contact. What? Not when they offer the apology. Not when they commit. Not when they show up a different way. Right now, who would you be right now? How would you think about yourself? How would you be spending your time? What would you stop checking for? What would you no longer tolerate? How would you respond to uncertainty? How would you feel about yourself when you're looking in the mirror?

What would love feel like if it didn't feel like something that you had to earn? And this isn't for you to turn this into another manifestation technique that you have to perform and you have to get perfectly. It's not about that. It's all about noticing and observing and shifting internally. Because maybe, just maybe, the person you're trying to become isn't actually that different from the person you already are. Maybe it's just a matter of you stop arguing with your own self about your worth and actually accepting that you are worthy.

Maybe it's the version of you who already knows they are deserving of love and commitment and whatever they want with their SP. Maybe it's the version of you who doesn't need to chase reassurance. Maybe it's the version of you who knows that yes, I am loved. I am wanted. I am chosen. I am worthy of a loving, secure, committed relationship, for example. Now, from there, your SP manifestation is no longer the giant mountain that you're trying to climb and you don't know how and it feels insurmountable.

It now becomes just one other aspect of your life that you're creating. That's it. And one last thing before I wrap this up. If your SP manifestation right now is feeling like it's very far away, don't take that as if something is not working. I'm doing something wrong. I'm failing at manifesting. Instead, I want you to start using this feeling as information. What do I believe about myself right now? What am I making their behavior mean?

What am I waiting for them to give me? And then come back to yourself. You don't have to fake certainty. You don't have to have the perfect circumstances in the 3D. Don't have to pretend that the 3D doesn't exist. You don't have to force yourself into a fake state. You simply begin practicing a different relationship with yourself. A relationship where you know that you can be loved without having to earn it in some way.

A relationship where you know that you are worthy without having to prove your worth and your value. Being chosen isn't something that you have to chase. And feeling secure within yourself isn't something that another person has to hand to you or take away from you. Because here's the magic that happens, you guys, when you stop looking at yourself as someone who is standing outside of love, trying to get in, trying to be chosen, trying to get that love come closer to them, and it always feels elusive.

It may not be that your SP is the first thing that needs to come closer first. No, it's actually more than likely you coming closer to the version of yourself who knows they already have what they want. This is how you close the distance and this is how you bring your SP manifestation to feel closer to you. With all that being said, I'm going to wrap up this video here. I intend that this has helped. As always, I very much appreciate you guys being on this channel, watching this content.

I love making this content for you. And as always, I look forward to seeing you all at the next video. Until then, take care and bye-bye.